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I am ‘ME’ and I ain’t gonna change that.

Being myself is being fiercest

Sitting down to write this piece was mentally strenuous for me, not because I could not find words to express my hazy mind but I found it hard to put it out in the universe.

Yes, we all find it weirdly disturbing to explain our troubled minds to others or at times even to oneself.
This difficulty I presume comes from understanding our thoughts which are not always  optimistic and untangle these feelings in front of people at the expense of feeling misunderstood, exposed and sympathetic.

Okay let’s address the elephant in the room which has been giving me identity crisis.

Yes, I am not ashamed to admit I do find a part of my self esteem coming from the fact that I identify myself as an individual with credence to my integrity, aspirations and selfhood which gave a sense to my existence.

Each individual is born and consistently grows with objectives to be fulfilled in their life which builds their personality and feeds their consciousness.

But why it has always been so hard for me to yearn for that identity which I wanted to so badly carve for my ownself.

All these years of education, experiences and adjustments has eventually fetched me another phase of life where I struggle every day to be seen as a being who can accomplish whatever I desire without being debriefed by the community.

The community here I indicate to all those insensitive humans around us in our families, friends, colleagues or even neighbours.

It’s exhausting to explain people why of everything you do in your life.

Isn’t it?

It is for me, and honestly it’s more bewildering to allow people arraign us to take decisions of our own lives.

The effect of which results in neglecting our identity, opinions and leading a miserable life.

You may find many people around us who are experiencing this identity crisis especially women because we are givers and we intend to give away our identity and desires to accommodate society’s norms.

Do we really need to let others steer our lives?

Let’s believe in our hearts, ambitions, opinions and risks needed to be taken to perceive our real selves, the one we should be proud of always.

Cheers to being uniquely ourselves.

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TO BE OR NOT TO BE

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“TO BE OR NOT TO BE“



 
 Don’t be mistaken this post has nothing to do with Hamlet’s question about living or dying. But it has a lot to do with our minds and decisions of life.

  Yeah, that’s right it can create a good argument between your intelligence and emotional quotient or to be precise your cerebral matter and your heart.

All these years of life we humans struggle in situations we tend to give in either our confidence or fears. This emotion of being happy, confident, nervous or even scared comes from our heart which speaks to us all the time.

Don’t you think it’s rightly said “Follow your heart” not because it can lead us to success but only because our heart is true to us all the time?

I do believe this vital organ of our body lying in our chest which symbolizes love, kindness, bravery and disappointments at times have the power to change our decisions of life.

But why there has always been difference of opinions on who to depend on to live your life fully.

From start of the day by tricking your mind to feel at peace with meditation till the end of the day with a mug of chamomile tea to put your brain at ease with all the anxieties of uncertain next morning to unravel in our life.


Gone are the days where the best advice given by our elders would be to follow your heart, now a millennial is only directed to play smartly using our brain power that has got nothing to do with kindness and empathy.

It can be as simple as showing hesitancy in helping someone at work and be proudly self focused to the extent of being a narcissist.

Shall we blame the rat race we are endlessly caught up in?

Nah, it cannot be always the rat race.

A person can either be intellectually driven or soulfully living their best.

It boils down to what keeps you going in your life, is it the financial status to make you feel successful or the smile that you brought on someone’s face with an act of kindness.


Think, what kind thing you did today?
 
 
 

The Rocket Science of all relationships

There is nothing in this universe more complex than a relationship and I mean “any” relationship.
To contradict my own saying nothing can be sweeter than a relationship too.
But can we understand any relationship in our entire existence?
Clearly known it is a never ending search just like finding a definite answer of pi.

Every relationship has roots- deep, vulnerable and connected.

Let’s look at what makes any relationship complicated. To be honest not every relationship you develop needs rocket science to be understood.
Let’s look at our blood relations and how smoothly you cherish them. (except the troubled ones)

On the other hand we tend to choose people with any tag on it based on the energy we reflect out in the universe, following Edward De Bono’s advice from the book ” How to have a Beautiful Mind” and its rightly said which is the basic principle of connecting with people.

Oh, yes I clearly mean we see in others what we have in ourselves it can be kindness, honesty or can be pessimism too.

Remember the world famous saying “Like attracts like” it explains some part of the relationships.

While the rest is developed on the basis of survival, comfort or advantage.

There can be more aspects of dealing with relationships which can be personal to each being.
But why did I think of writing on something which I myself cannot perceive even at the expense of delving through my mind a series of good and bad memories to understand what relationship I have with people around me.

Yes, people around us tend teach a lot of things about any relationship either with their best or worst actions. You ought to learn these dealings even if you don’t want to and eventually “karma” plays it’s role.

The main ingredient in developing that stronger than steel bond with your family, friend, partner or any person in this whole wide world rely on the trust and transparency between the people.

In this age of absurd development where I have endured disappointing relationships with pessimistic people from my closest relations to the distant ones few though, it has been an experience which has made me learn the other side of the good story, the ungrateful quality of humans and the manipulative tendency to overpower others.

Sigh!

I wish human beings were more sensitive towards people around than to thyself, so that world can become a lil better place.

xxx❤️xxx

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